Anonymous: To any woman who has been raped or fears it just remember it only takes around 7lbs of pressure to the side of the knee to shatter it. The human body is alot weaker than most people think.

it’s a lot harder to do those things when you’re being held down and/or psychologically degraded and/or drugged and/or frozen in fear. honestly you can’t say what you’d do or what people should do unless you have been in that situation because we don’t do things based on what people have told us we go with our gut and we do what we feel is right. women have also been taught not to fight back and are told not to or things will become worse.

basically there’s a lot more to it than that.

Anonymous: (p.s this is one of the anons that is asking you to be a little nicer, just know that I agree with everything you say 100% i'm just trying to let you see the other viewpoint and i'm not saying that works better than being aggressive i'm just saying what has worked for me I hope you have a good day caitlin i'm sorry if I pissed you off<3)

i’m really not angry i just hate when people tell me to calm down and be sweet and nice bc that’s just now how i do things really. people don’t listen to me no matter what i say unless i demand that they listen take a REALLY strong stand. otherwise no one could care less what i have to say, politically or otherwise.

Anonymous: these dicks are acting like looking good or respectable is better than calling people out on their fucking bullshit when it's just not at all fuck these guys you go girl. people don't deserve your niceness if they're gonna have fuckin ignorant views

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Anonymous: To that anon who got molested before, instead of using pepper spray to protect yourself, something like hairspray works too, because it is illegal in most countries :)

hairspray is illegal or pepper spray is??? but yeah that’s a good idea too they make little compact travel ones. they obviously don’t pack as much punch though.

dysphoriadaughter: Okay but see I have tried the nice approach towards transphobic people and guess what? It makes things worse. It makes them think you're weak, and an easy target. I got punched in the gut and hit over the head with a beer bottle for trying to be nice to my oppressors, it doesn't work, and it has never fucking worked in history. Also, don't bring up MLK's existence just because it's convenient to your MRA bullshit you privileged little assholes. Now shit up and leave her alone.

thank u friend :*****

Anonymous: when you were in high school, did your teachers scream and act rude to you because you were unknowing and uneducated? Do you think you would learn anything that way if they did? lol no

i’m pretty sure i’m not an employed teacher but nice try

honestly if teachers did that kids would probably listen a lot more lmfao like for real look at the people in this country and u gonna try and tell me that passive acceptance is the best way to change shit

Anonymous: I've been molested twice (technically raped once) by men whom I just couldn't bring myself to forcefully tell to fuck off and leave me alone. I've been in uncomfortable situations with men and I remain passive because I'm scared saying something will make them hurt me like my rapist did when I told him he was crossing a line. Your blog made me more assertive as a feminist, and I was hoping you had some advice on how to be more assertive with unwanted attention from men? :/

i understand completely i’m like that a LOT too. i’m very assertive sometimes but when it comes to a situation where i feel threatened by a male i feel like I physically shrink and it makes me light headed and scared like crazy. all i can say is to remember that you have the right to tell them to go shove it up their ass and if you need to carry like pepper spray to reinforce it, go ahead. i wouldn’t suggest carrying a gun or something though because in emotional states you make shitty decisions sometimes and it can be used on you if you’re not very decisive about it. otherwise, i’m kind of in the same boat :(

Anonymous: Also you do have to put on a happy face and act like its okay that others are uneducated if you dont want to be a hypocritical little shit dick yourself its part of being a better person and taking the high road.

yeah how about nO

Anonymous: "piss off okay" nice way too prove that the anon is right, telling them to leave when you're proved wrong

when did i ever deny it omfg

Anonymous: It was not a typo I do mean uneducated male oppression. Its uneducated males opressing women sorry if it was unclear the way I typed it.

ohHHHHHHH okay that makes more sense

your stereotyping of texas still invalidated your point though :***

Anonymous: did you see MLK jr. going around insulting white people for being oppressed? NO. I bet you haven't even tried the "nice" approach. You felt like you were being oppressed and immediately went to bitching everyone out. Maybe if you explained NICELY why you don't like it and how you want things to change, it would happen. and TRUST ME I want it to happen, i'm a women too. I feel oppressed all the time. Do I pitch a fit and scream? no. I calmly explain how I feel and what I want, and it happens.

every time i have tried to be calm i have been talked down and degraded and i’m fucking sick of it so piss off okay

MALE OPPRESSION HOLY CRAP

Anonymous: If your sick of uneducated male opression maybe you should move to a much more educated area. I dont mean to be offensive but Texas is not the most educated in social matters being mostly conservative. And again im not trying to offend you.

i’M CACKLING

cacty replied to your post: If you want equality, don’t go around insulting…

and if this anon doesn’t think the lgbtqia community doesn’t act that way towards uneducated straight people ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh man

truth man truth

imagepeanuttella replied to your post: If you want equality, don’t go around insulting…

To be honest, going at it like ‘I’ll do what I like, my way is the only way’ you seriously won’t get what you want. so many people in this world are uneducated, you’ve just got to deal with it. It’s annoying I know :)

just because people are uneducated little shit dicks doesn’t mean i have to put on a happy face and pretend it’s okay